Coaching and counseling for winning the battle with your eating problems
Who is your food pimp? From the outset, let us look at the word “PIMP.” A pimp is usually a man whom is in charge of prostitutes. The pimps offer protection for prostitutes, find clients for them and in return, the pimps get a portion of the prostitute’s earnings. I am not here to [...]
DEATH BY DONUTS Death by donuts is used in this blog as a generic term for suicide and self destructive behaviors. This would include such behaviors as death by fast food, death by knife and fork, death by alcohol, even death by cop, or whatever methods we use to destroy ourselves, however our behaviors still [...]
NO OFFICER, I HAVEN”T BEEN DRINKING. THE HOT FUDGE SUNDAE FELL IN MY LAP! So you driving down the road and swerve into another lane. You are able to maneuver the vehicle back to a proper lane as you see the blue lights in the rear view mirror. The issue is not that you have [...]
WHY ARE FAT PEOPLE INVISABLE? This may seem like an oxymoron. You might be thinking that of course fat people aren’t invisible. After all they take up not only their seat at the movies and then some of yours. Not to mention having to wait for someone to move their mass in a shopping [...]
If you are fat, it is your fault The people I see in my eating disorder practice in Dayton, Ohio, usually have one large common thread. It is that they know what and in many cases how to address all of their eating disordered issues. Sometimes, I am amazed at how my clients possess [...]
DOUBLE AGENTS How we allow others to help kill us About ten years ago, I was treating a 47 year old woman for depression. She was morbidly obese. According to her physician, obesity was the root to her most of her serious physical problems. She was angry with her husband and according to [...]
YOU KNOW YOU WANT ME I know you want me. You have been whispering my name for the last 3 hours before you get off work. You have had your little fantasies; I even speak back, urging you to come. I beckon when you become weak. I tell you just one little stop off [...]
FOOD FIGHTER FOREVER Once the food fight starts…it is for the most part on for the rest of our lives. You might ask what is a food fight. We know when we are in a food fight when… for whatever reasons we become very aware of our weight, bodies, how our bodies look and function. [...]
WHY WEIGHT WAR!!!!!!!!!! Why and when is it appropriate to wage war? Going to war should be taken seriously especially when your life and quality of your life is in serious risk and peril. When nations, states and or tribes feel their existence and lives are threatened and if they have the resources they [...]
JUST BECAUSE YOU CAN, DOESN’T MEAN YOU SHOULD I have this saying I have been using for awhile. My friends have gotten so used to me using it; they laugh and finish the last part. “Just because you can doesn’t mean you should”! A great example of this occurs daily on any given street [...]